Adult services are legal in Canada. Using this directory is legal. And like any in-person service — whether you’re hiring a contractor or booking a massage — a bit of common sense goes a long way. These tips are practical, not preachy.

For Clients: Meeting a Provider Safely

Do your research before you book. Read the listing carefully. Check that contact details look consistent. If a provider has reviews, read them. A five-minute check before you reach out is worth it.

Communicate clearly upfront. Be direct about what you’re looking for. Ambiguous bookings lead to awkward appointments.

Tell someone where you’re going. If you’re visiting an unfamiliar location, let a friend know the address and a rough timeframe. Basic personal safety.

Trust your gut. If something feels off before the appointment — weird communications, last-minute location changes, pressure to skip agreed terms — it’s okay to cancel.

For Providers: Protecting Yourself

Screen your clients. You have every right to ask for references, a real name, or a phone number before confirming a booking.

Use a dedicated work number. Keep your personal and professional contact information separate. A second SIM or a VOIP number is worth the small cost.

Have a check-in system. Tell a trusted person when you’re starting an appointment and when it ends.

Trust your instincts. You can refuse a booking for any reason. A client who makes you uncomfortable before the appointment will not improve once inside.

Resources

• PEERS Victoria (peersvictoria.ca) — support and resources for people in the sex industry
• Maggie’s Toronto (maggiesto.com) — peer support for sex workers in Ontario
• PACE Society (pacesociety.org) — support services in Vancouver
• Stella, l’amie de Maimie (chezstella.org) — Montreal-based support, bilingual resources

If you’re in crisis, contact Crisis Services Canada at 1-833-456-4566, available 24/7.